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sean20039929 t1_jaehogd wrote

Reply to comment by Cabbage_Patch_Itch in Ex dumped me (18m) and said she (18f) developed feelings for another guy she met on a dating/friends app. is this cheating? by [deleted]

So I can talk to other girls in my relationships and fall in love with them than not tell my partner and dump them? Sounds great doesn't it?

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Cabbage_Patch_Itch t1_jaekuzd wrote

It happens. The merciful dump you and move on. The cruel just cheat. The cowards stay and resent you. It’s not cheating. If someone meets a person they prefer and leave it just them leaving. I think you’re better of considering the options. You need someone who isn’t still looking. She obviously was keeping her options open. She isn’t LTR material.

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sean20039929 t1_jaelmds wrote

Why would you have options if your committed to someone?

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Cabbage_Patch_Itch t1_jaenegs wrote

Cause she’s NOT committed. I’ve been friends with these girls my whole life. Every guy is the best once they get together but somehow they are still looking for bester. And they were not receptive to advice. Some people just aren’t ready. Why do they pretend to want it and hurt people? I don’t know.

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