kvox109 t1_jaeccf7 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 8:45 PM

End it! She needs to be over her ex before moving forward with you

thebadhabitrabbit t1_jaei8ym wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:22 PM

But they are not in a relationship...this is ridiculous

kvox109 t1_jaeiheh wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:24 PM

But OP said they are moving toward something more serious. If she’s not over the ex, shouldn’t be moving towards something serious. Try again.

SleepDangerous1074 t1_jaejsp9 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:32 PM

No he wants a relationship m. She doesn’t. OP has relationship expectations of someone who’s clearly stated that’s not what they are or what she wants

kvox109 t1_jaek0m3 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:34 PM

Either way he should end it if he doesn’t like she what she’s doing.

SleepDangerous1074 t1_jaemctt wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:49 PM

Agreed

thebadhabitrabbit t1_jaeizlb wrote on February 28, 2023 at 9:27 PM

Well this doesn't make sense to me. They want to be more than friends with benefits, but they are "not there yet". If they are "not there yet", everyone is free to do whatever they like. This actually might be the reason why they are "not there yet", she wants to keep her doors open. OP needs to decide if that works for him or not.