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tlf555 t1_jabb5ld wrote

Are you really falling in love? Or is that loneliness (horniness) talking?

Has she given any real indication that she wants to spend (unpaid) time with you? She might just be stringing ypu along emotionally to keep her as a paying customer.

Do you have a savior (save-her) complex? Thinking you will "rescue" her from her current lifestyle? And she will be forever "grateful" to you in return? If this turns into a real relationship that makes for a huge power imbalance.

Do you even know the real "her" behind the escort? Or is she just playing a fantasy role of who you want her to be?

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fddf123456 OP t1_jabc95g wrote

A lot of great insightful questions here

Not loneliness talking. I like her. I feel that way with only some girls. one or two girls one to three months. I find that either they have boyfriends or not my type after I spend time with them.

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wingedumbrella t1_jac0vp1 wrote

Keep in mind part of her job is putting on an act for men so she'll get paid. She interacts with a lot of different men, so she needs to be able to adapt her personality according to who she's with. She might be doing that with you too, making you feel at ease and accepted around her. But, most of the men she is with probably feel as comfortable around her as you do.

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