I’m not perfect. I’m autistic and have listening issues and emotional intelligence issues so half the time I just don’t get it and she gets so mad she screams at me and I swear I’ve never yelled half the horrendous stuff she does and that’s why I know it’s abusive. I’ve never wanted a single hair on her head harmed let alone tried to coerce or manipulate her like she does. I’m just sad for my kids. It sucks when kids are involved.