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chromatic_evil t1_ja9ro6c wrote

Reply to comment by Randobon in Codependent Marriage (40m & 30f) by [deleted]

Yes! I am in individual therapy as well and my therapist is wonderful. Just can’t meet with them as often as I’d like and these thoughts have just been overwhelming to deal with lately.

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Randobon t1_ja9s9sm wrote

And you are not plannin to leave asap even with this help?

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chromatic_evil t1_ja9yyyj wrote

Oh it’s been on my mind for a few months (even though we always had these problems I never really saw how bad it was until we had a kid). I am extremely non confrontational (to a fault) and have a history of minimizing my feelings/experiences, which is why I wanted to lay it out here to see if there was anything to what I was feeling. Not to mention the logistics of trying to figure out where I would go, custody, finances, having no idea how he would react if I did leave, etc etc

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