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ithoughtikneewitalll t1_ja8ag5x wrote

This is a strange post.

No one cares about your flow if she’s still continued to pay her rent. If you like living alone, move out. There’s no reason to communicate you like it better when she’s gone.

You guys clearly have your issues but like you said that’s a whole diff story.

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xdem112 t1_ja8bs2a wrote

My thoughts exactly haha. Like OP, no one gives a flying hell about tiptoeing around you while paying half the living expenses. Heaven forbid when she’s there you have to clean up after yourself.

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[deleted] OP t1_ja8amng wrote

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[deleted] OP t1_ja8bfnb wrote

you came here for advice. & you’re being rude to commenters just because they’re not saying what you want to hear

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AesopFabel t1_ja8bs4k wrote

From these comments, you're obviously just as exhausting of a person. Just have a conversation with her. Use words, this isn't some sophisticated, complex issue.

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anastasia1983 t1_ja8c25m wrote

Years ago in my 20’s I had a roommate whose boyfriend lived on the other side of the country. Her work also took her to his city frequently. She’d be gone for weeks at a time then come back and it felt so disruptive. So i moved out.

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LostInTheNW t1_ja8cki6 wrote

LOL at you getting mad that you aren't getting the supportive advice that you hoped for. You are very strange. No one cares about "your flow" and she really hasn't done anything wrong except allow you to live on your own for half rent for a couple of month's.

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Grow up

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TommyBonesMalone t1_ja8d5rb wrote

Sounds like you don’t like the answer, which is that you can talk to her about her behavior and hope that has an effect, but otherwise you have no option except get over it. The rent is being paid. You were lucky to get a couple months by yourself. Most people deal with roommate stuff all the time without breaks like that. Sounds like your amazing set up was just temporary, but it’s still cool you had it. Now you have to adjust back to what most normal people have to deal with.

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