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throwaway_151821 t1_jadaadz wrote

delay the wedding for now. my belief is that if it's not a hell yes then it's a no. I feel like your girl is Filipina and if her family's what I think it is, you are never going to have her as your wife 100%. Her family's welfare will always come first even though you're starting your own family. If you're taking her to live with you, expect that even if she gets a good job a huge chunk of her earnings will be sent back home and won't go towards your plans as a couple. You will become the money source of the family so expect calls about every possible financial emergency. you're going to visit her hometown often and expect that you will be the ones spending the whole time. I could be wrong, but in most cases this is what happens. observe and assess because that is a big commitment you're making.

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[deleted] OP t1_jaf1db6 wrote

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Molsen10000 t1_jaf24v1 wrote

I know Filipinas well. You will be marrying the whole crew. Possibly supporting…LOL.

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Kooky_Independent656 t1_jadm69n wrote

You love her but just don't like her parents...that happens more than you know. Get married and get through the wedding with the in laws and live a happy life.

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[deleted] OP t1_jaf1vv1 wrote

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Kooky_Independent656 t1_jaf2s2c wrote

Once you are married then she becomes your wife and they won't be able to control her ...put on a happy face and marry her.

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