Submitted by ThrowRAsocool t3_11eiv9h in relationship_advice
Title says it all but I’ll give some more backstory:
My (19M) boyfriend was showing me (19NB) photos on his phone. While he was scrolling, a picture of a random girl was in his camera roll. Curious, I asked him about and he said he was porn. He laughed about it and this upset me so I gave him the cold shoulder. Later I was trying to express how upset I was and he said “All guys do this. It’s not just me” and “You’re not going to control what I have on my phone.”. I don’t mind if he watches porn but I really wasn’t expecting him to have pics of naked girls on his phone.
We respect eachother’s privacy but this has made me lose almost all of my trust. I can’t give him what I was due to my fear of pregnancy (And I’m in therapy for that) but this doesn’t seem normal to me.
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