Submitted by DesignerGovernment27 t3_11enlsf in relationship_advice
dating for almost 7 months (I known him for 2 years). We’ve created a beautiful and trusting relationship, tonight this has me in deep thoughts.
I was meant to be staying at his on thursday night, so I asked him and he wasn’t so sure as he really wanted to go to the gym and he just didn’t want me to stay. When I asked why he said
“How about I make you a deal?”
replied with “okay…”
“If u give me a detailed description of what we’re gonna do tomorrow and it makes me rlly horny I’ll see u.”
“Bcs sex is ur main selling point.”
After that I just didn’t know what to say or do, what do I do? Was this just a misuse of words? I genuinely hope he’s not using me for this stuff… he’s my first love.
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