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Jmm1272 t1_jaen7mt wrote

Your boyfriend should tell her to speak English when you are around. It sounds like he doesn’t support you

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Idkman4182 OP t1_jaenymn wrote

That’s kinda how I’m feeling.. but idk if he’s really brought it up to her. I don’t want to force him to say something ya know?.. idk it’s just weird. The fact that him and his brother speak English to each other and that his mom doesn’t is just super weird to me

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Jmm1272 t1_jaerns9 wrote

You should have to force him. He should hear you saying it’s an issue and then he should take care of it. That’s why I say he doesn’t support you. You already told him how you feel and he did nothing about it.

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No_Hovercraft5033 t1_jaey8g7 wrote

Maybe she’s just more comfortable speaking Spanish as it’s her language in her home? Does she make you feel excluded besides her speaking her language if you’re not included in the conversation ? Like if you’re a part of the convo will she speak English to exclude you?

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kaibelf t1_jaephr7 wrote

If you are uncomfortable about something, and he actually cares, it won't be anything you're "forcing." He will want to do it out of respect for the relationship. Just because she's his mom doesn't mean she's incapable of being tactless and rude. Especially if he's 32, unless he's an obscene mama's boy.

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