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You're sexually and fundamentally incompatible. This isn't a sustainable dynamic for either of you, long-term.

So what are you wanting advice on? Are you wanting a sexual partner outside of your relationship or just asking how to navigate a conversation about sex with your fiancé?

>make sacrifices if I need to

There's a difference between compromising, and compromising yourself

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It is so important to be sexually compatible. To feel truly in love, safe, treasured, and cherished you need to be on the same page. I’m sorry, but I don’t recommend staying together.

Touch-starved should not equate to lack of sexual intimacy. Are you saying that your partner isn’t physically affectionate with you at all?

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Check out the dead bedrooms sub. This isn’t going to get any better. Just because you aren’t having sexy doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t have any affection. It sound like you two aren’t compatible.