Scared_Fig4364 OP t1_jae6zc2 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 8:10 PM

Reply to comment by International-Aside in My boyfriend ( 30M ) won’t propose to me ( 30F) after somos 7 years relationship by Scared_Fig4364

I would get mad and say we should split up because out goals do no match. He doesn’t want the same things I want even tho he always insist he does. But nothing happens

International-Aside t1_jae7kj4 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 8:14 PM

okay, so what it sounds like is that you state your needs clearly/hold him accountable for his two-faced behavior. Thats not "acting up" (though it should be done in a mature manner).

look, he's not going to propose to you, and would you really want him to at this point? He wouldnt be doing it bc he truly wants to, he'd be doing it to appease you which is an awful way to begin a marriage. I have a feeling this is only one thing of many that isnt working in your relationship