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International-Aside t1_jae6pqe wrote

define "act up" please

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Scared_Fig4364 OP t1_jae6zc2 wrote

I would get mad and say we should split up because out goals do no match. He doesn’t want the same things I want even tho he always insist he does. But nothing happens

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International-Aside t1_jae7kj4 wrote

okay, so what it sounds like is that you state your needs clearly/hold him accountable for his two-faced behavior. Thats not "acting up" (though it should be done in a mature manner).

look, he's not going to propose to you, and would you really want him to at this point? He wouldnt be doing it bc he truly wants to, he'd be doing it to appease you which is an awful way to begin a marriage. I have a feeling this is only one thing of many that isnt working in your relationship

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