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UsuallyWrite2 t1_jae8yej wrote

Make your move out plan, then tell her that you care about her and have enjoyed the time together but it just doesn’t feel like a good fit and that you’re moving out on X day.

Do it before the trip. She can invite someone else.

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ThrowRAmindboggled OP t1_jaea0yt wrote

The problem is the ski pass among other things is non refundable and I’m pretty sure you can’t transfer the pass to someone else. Might be the same case with the flight.

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UsuallyWrite2 t1_jaeak58 wrote

That’s really not your problem. She can sort it out. You can pay her back later if you want to. But going on the trip would be wrong unless she wants to have you there as friends.

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ThrowRAmindboggled OP t1_jaeaul2 wrote

You bring up a good point. I should probably bring it up to her before the trip and see what she wants me to do. I still love her and definitely don’t want to screw her over. Just realized she’s not who I see myself with for life and it would be better to end it sooner rather than later.

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