He doesn’t respect you. Let him go and bet he tries to come back. Whatever the case you can do better. You’re not a project you’re a person. This guy doesn’t want you he wants something he can show off. Objectification is a sleazy kind of relationship to have with anybody, much less the person you’d marry. He would most certainly trade you in for a newer model in a few years, or keep you around to get the groceries while he leases a new ride. Find somebody that wants to be with you as you are. Or let them find you. Either way let this fish go he stinks.