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BinkoBankoBonko t1_jaeh3f4 wrote

What did she do for you?

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ThrowAway22030202 OP t1_jaeh7l5 wrote

Made me feel loved, appreciated the effort I made (until this year) and was there for me when no one else was.

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BinkoBankoBonko t1_jaei46n wrote

Reason I asked is because a lot of times relationships with people with severe mental health issues ends up being incredibly one-sided. Her condition is not going to get better. If this kind of behavior makes you feel "loved" then you probably need to reevaluate. You feeling bad for her during this shows a great deal of compassion but, this is wildly unacceptable behavior as a partner.

A dog can make you feel loved and be there for you when no one else is.

She has acted exactly how she will act for probably her whole life. This will VERY likely be a cycle that she does with you until she dies. If you like it/can handle it.. great then stay with her. Your choice.

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ThrowAway22030202 OP t1_jaeiho4 wrote

I see what you saying, thank you :(

To be honest even if I wanted to stay with her (and I still love her for some reason so I do). She blocked me and refuses to unblock me or speak to me

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BinkoBankoBonko t1_jaej0gm wrote

The weed will likely keep her in this mental state for her whole life if she continues to smoke. Seriously it prevents people from growing mentally as I've seen.

She will come back eventually/apologize and blame herself and her condition. Let her come back don't pursue her. You take her back.. it will absolutely happen again though. Like I said.. we make these choices. Choose your life.

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ThrowAway22030202 OP t1_jaehczr wrote

Her family is very poor so she was never able to do much for me that cost money but when she had money she would buy me small things and it meant the world to me

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