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Merzbenzmike t1_j1os3mz wrote

I kept Christmas as drama free as possible. My alcoholic girlfriend is killing my family relationships. I put her above others. When they (my family) are gone, all I will have is an alcoholic girlfriend who continues to use and avoid treatment. Why do I do this to myself? And I do do this to myself.

Yes, I attend Al-Anon. 💔😞

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SystemOfADowneyJr t1_j1p509v wrote

Why do you stay? Is it because she’s hot and great in bed? Why would you let your gf ruin your family relationships?

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Merzbenzmike t1_j1pqfwy wrote

Excellent question. I believe it’s called a codependency, as I am dependent on the person who is dependent on the alcohol.

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