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surrrah t1_j2e76ss wrote

I get that. But when it IS a choice, people are still put down.

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showmewhatyougot37 t1_j2eh58p wrote

Because it's not VIEWED as a choice, it's viewed as a poor thing which is frowned upon in the US

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surrrah t1_j2emvgu wrote

Okay I guess I’m just not explaining well enough what I’m trying to say. Doesn’t matter. Good day

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Ok-Recording2620 t1_j2eybqb wrote

The default assumption in the US is that if you’re living with parents, it’s because of a life situation (divorce) or because you can’t afford to live on your own. That’s why it’s seen as a culturally bad thing. If someone culturally chooses to live with their parents, it’s probably an immigrant family, it’s just not common here. Living with your family here usually is code for “not thriving”. Not saying it should be like this, but that’s how it is. I’ve never heard someone actually get out down for living with their parents, if anything, people respond positively and say “I wish I could do that” “you’re probably saving so much money” etc.

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