Submitted by tarsier_jungle1485 t3_z5b0hw in pittsburgh
pghhotfire t1_ixvc015 wrote
Reply to comment by susinpgh in Why does the Edgewood Giant Eagle have a greeter? by tarsier_jungle1485
I’m curious why you are conflicted? Oddly I had to go in a PNC today and a greeter said hello to me. I think it’s nice.
susinpgh t1_ixvedcp wrote
I fluctuate between seing them as obsequious and as gatekeepers. I don't find them pleasant at all.
pghhotfire t1_ixvfzfa wrote
Does this apply to everyone? Like a host at a restaurant? I’m genuinely curious because my gf and I were just talking about this. She was reading some thread about how people don’t like co-workers to say “good morning” to them.
bekahed979 t1_ixvjraw wrote
I don't really like that either, it's awkward. I don't mind wave or a quick Hi but I hate having to catch up with everyone everyday.
pghhotfire t1_ixvmieh wrote
I would think you are younger than me maybe? And it seems like it’s not uncommon for people to feel the way you do. I don’t know…I work from home now (4 years) and the one thing I miss about my old place was human interaction. Just made the day better chatting with people.
susinpgh t1_ixvuidu wrote
That doesn't seem equivalent at all. The hostess is there to direct you seating based on how many people are in a section. I've been going to this same branch for years and I am just there, once a week, to deposit checks. I really don't need help.
I say hi to people on the street all the time. I do it when I'm riding. But greeters seem so fake. I get that they are probably not thrilled to be there.
pghhotfire t1_ixw1ij1 wrote
I get it. I guess when someone says hi to me or asks if they can help, I just like to be friendly back. Especially if they aren’t thrilled to be there.
susinpgh t1_ixw5qgw wrote
I never once mentioned my reaction. All I said was that I find myself conflicted over the interaction. Big difference.
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