I’m kind of in the same boat. Moved here in Oct and I’m still getting a feel for what’s out there. I don’t mind some drinking, but it seems like it’s a really large part of the culture here. I had never tailgated until recently or lived in an area where that’s huge. I admit I had a ton of fun, but the hangover the next day was anything but.

If you don’t have hobbies, pick one. I like to grab one of my cameras and walk different neighborhoods to get some shots. Pbgh is great for street photography. Pick one new park to visit on your days off. Check out the library for free museum passes. Visit independent bookstores (are there any here?🤔). If you drive, explore some of the small towns nearby. Learn a new craft. I saw a FB ad for glassmaking the other day. Like I said, I’m still pretty new here, but there are a lot of things to do here.