That's literally so nice thank you. I know how you feel and I used to deal with that too. Now I make an effort to find something good to say about someone whenever I can. I also notice things I both admire and wish I had the confidence to pull off and make a point to celebrate how cool it is that they are doing it! The easiest things to compliment are a person's smile, energy, or clothes, as they always come off less aggressive or off putting then comments about their appearance as attractive which can be hard to read and seem like it had certain intentions behind it. I saw someone today wearing a crop top, she had my body type, a healthy medium weight and I always feel a little self conscious when I show my stomach that fully because it's not perfectly flat but I saw how fantastic she looked and I really admired that she wasn't afraid to show her mid section, so I told her how great her crop top looked. Its things like that that really make my day, sometimes its just seeing someone bolder than me and still pulling it off great that I love to celebrate and encourage