I don't think "it's pointless to be tolerant" though.

But I think I understand what you're getting at. Tolerance is a sort of oxymoron in and of itself.

If you're truly "tolerant", you don't really see it as tolerating.

But tolerance is still important. Because, we're not perfect. Even those of us who are truly tolerant. We still need to actively engage tolerance, or patience, when we encounter new things, or difficult things