itzahckrhet t1_isoss8v wrote on October 17, 2022 at 4:11 PM

Nothing, it's my favourite thing to do. I am exhausted by people that always need to do something.

AdmiralPhuckit t1_isouh8n wrote on October 17, 2022 at 4:24 PM

Same. Wanna do nothing together in our own rooms and not talk?

itzahckrhet t1_isoukk5 wrote on October 17, 2022 at 4:24 PM

Sounds like a plan.

_xyzzy_ t1_isp99zi wrote on October 17, 2022 at 6:04 PM

I was gonna ask to join along but I think I'll stay home instead.

itzahckrhet t1_isp9hl5 wrote on October 17, 2022 at 6:06 PM

Hopefully doing nothing.

_Golf3 t1_issh0fy wrote on October 18, 2022 at 11:34 AM

“I once worked with a guy for three years and never learned his name. Best friend I ever had. We still never talk sometimes.”

[deleted] t1_isqta8g wrote on October 18, 2022 at 12:40 AM

I have an idea I may one day try --- that perhaps the most mindblowing date idea would be to -- aside from the opening greetings, introduction, telling a date where dinner will be -- do the rest of the first date completely silent, communicating only through eye contact and basic/subtle gestures. I genuinely believe a date in near silence would blow the minds of both parties, as the experience (if both people could do it the full time) would probably be uniquely unheard of and connecting. Because, if you can enjoy another's company with the most minimal of interactions, how much must you enjoy that person.

ValyrianJedi t1_ist0jfn wrote on October 18, 2022 at 2:18 PM

Kind of makes getting to know someone impossible though. It doesn't mean you necessarily like them, just that you haven't had a chance to realize that you don't.