I met my girlfriend on Hinge! I know dating apps suck and nothing will change that, but I saw another comment saying you live in montco. Next time you're in Philly do a lot of swiping and you'll get new/better matches. There aren't any great gay bar options in the city. Sip city mixers have been mentioned which is another option. Honestly I think we should start our own group for meetups, I really need more queer friends