Man, I say this from a place of love and completely separately from anything we're disagreeing about here: I think you should reread your comment, count up the number of times you say 'you want...' or 'you think...' and then check my comments to see if I actually said any of those things.

You're saying I said a bunch of things I didn't say and IMHO that's a red flag for a kind of mental place where you start to see anyone who disagrees with you about anything as your enemy. I say this because I've been there, and it's not a happy place.

Feel free to ignore me, but I hope you have a peaceful and happy day.