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Chrismeyers2k1 t1_j2b9lqe wrote

Nothing wrong with being cautious on spending, provided you are actually increasing savings each month and not lending it all to family or whatever it's a good attribute to have. Id stop the money lending prompto.

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Random_Ai OP t1_j2bczyp wrote

>Id stop the money lending prompto.

how when if it's somebody like my mom?

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Chrismeyers2k1 t1_j2bdhrf wrote

Easy. Tell mom you aren't going to lend her your money that you earned anymore. She's an adult right? Shes had a long enough life to learn how to be an adult, dont you find out odd she cant handle money and has to rely on her son?

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Random_Ai OP t1_j2be8qo wrote

she's keeping a roof over my head though

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Chrismeyers2k1 t1_j2bei9s wrote

Shes paying the mortgage or the rent the same amount regardless of whether or not you are there. You are not a causitive factor in her inability to manage her finances other than she likely guilt trips you into constant loans. Cut it off now before it gets any worse. She needs to sink or swim.

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