Submitted by MrPickles2000 t3_1001vpz in personalfinance
I'm curious how folks here process saving for college and balancing out giving children options/risks of over-saving/valuing private colleges. My partner and I are fortunate to have a good, steady income and are currently maxing out our tax-protected retirement accounts. Both of us were also lucky enough to graduate college without any significant debt (one of us did four years at a private college, the other did 2 years private/2 years public) thanks to parental support. On one hand, we want to give our children the same opportunities but on the other hand, looking at projected costs it's hard to fathom that a private school is providing adequate value for the cost difference.
I've put together a projection in excel to help us plan for our 529. If our kids follow the standard timeline (i.e. no gap years), they'd be entering school in Fall of '29 and Fall of '31.
By my projections the future value for four years of private school would be around $440K (1st child) and $465K (2nd child) while public school would be around $160K/$170K. If we were to fully fund each child's 529 to plan for private school and they attended public school instead, each of the 529s would be left with over $325K after graduation.
Obviously there are options for that leftover money including graduate school, rolling it over into their own children's (or other relative's) 529s, and now rolling it into Roth's, but on the other hand, $650K is a significant chunk of change to wrap up in an account where non-qualified withdrawals are penalized.
Anyway, I'm not exactly asking "what should I do" because I realize this is about personal values more than anything else, but I am curious - how have other people processed making this decision?
93195 t1_j2f14fn wrote
First and foremost, take care of your own retirement and investing needs first. The best thing you can do for your kids is to remain financially independent until death, and not put them in a position where they feel they have to sacrifice what their own young family needs to support you.
Once that’s done, I’m a proponent of over saving. Too much is better than too little, and the worst case for unqualified 529 withdraws are taxes (which you’d be paying anyway if in a taxable account) and 10% on earnings only, not principal.
So if you ended up with $150K too much, assuming half was earnings and half was principal, the penalty would be $7500. Not ideal obviously, but that’s still $142,500 back in your pocket, minus the same taxes you’d be paying anyway of course.
As far as worst cases go, that ain’t too bad.