makes-more-sense OP t1_iy89bs6 wrote on November 29, 2022 at 2:21 PM

Reply to comment by sephiroth3650 in Started working two years ago — how much savings/income should I strive for to afford an expensive house within the next five years without being "house poor"? by makes-more-sense

My baseline monthly expense is $1000 — Rent and utilities is approx $450 a month. Food varies within $120 - $400. Domestic travel (For work, seeing family, etc) varies a lot but is about $200 a month. The rest is incidentals. I don't really have concrete savings goals other than for a down payment, though my work does have a 401k that I contribute to. The house would also be for me — I guess the for-my-father point is materially irrelevant (Though I personally would've been fine being in another city)

sephiroth3650 t1_iy8b7du wrote on November 29, 2022 at 2:36 PM

Well, if your intent is that you would live in this home as well, it changes things....but not by a ton. Unless you are able to save up $750k or more to put down on the house, it's probably not going to be affordable. B/c you're not only looking at your finances at this moment, but for the next 30 years. You don't have a car payment now. But you won't need one ever? Gotta have wiggle room to afford to buy a car. And pay for car insurance. And gas. Food and household bills will go up if you're covering the entire home. You will have to pay for maintenance and upkeep on the house. Assume 1% of the purchase price annually for repairs/upkeep. So you may have to cover up to $15k annually for home issues. You will have utilities to pay. On the home you could easily be over $500/month for gas/electric/Internet/water/sewer. More, if you live in an area that can get very hot or cold.

Liquidretro t1_iy8d666 wrote on November 29, 2022 at 2:51 PM

I would also add, don't forget about funding retirement too. It's fine to slow or stop retirement contributions for a short period of time to build up a downpayment, but doing that for more than a few years is going to really start to hurt long term. Being house poor is one thing, but being house poor and not have much saved for retirement is financial suicide for OP's income bracket.

I think OP needs to sit down and have a long hard thing about their priorities, and what's achievable with their realistic income and decide on what needs changing.