Barbacuda OP t1_itmf333 wrote
Reply to comment by delightedcustomer in Starting to notice that no matter how progressive women claim to be, they still only mostly date white guys. by Barbacuda
Yeah move out and let my parents go homeless. This is exactly what I'm talking about. Real bootstraps mentality
delightedcustomer t1_itmfekd wrote
Move out, get a job, and support your parents. Organize a home health aide from the city if the support is also physical. You’re not the only one who has had to do that. You’re 30(?) years old.
“Progressive women dating white guys” are the least of your problems.
Barbacuda OP t1_itmg19y wrote
I already have a job paying more than both my parents ever made. It's still not enough to move out and still support them. And ironically enough my mom is a home health aid. My parents and sibling don't need physical support. They need a roof over their heads and food and not having to worry about homelessness
delightedcustomer t1_itmgmqt wrote
Earning more than what HHAs earn isn’t wildly impressive. HHAs absolutely do hard work and should be paid more, but their pay in nyc isn’t good. So you are not impressing women with that.
You’re also a self-described incel. And you highlight your baldness. Frankly, you sound ghastly and unappealing. Women have nothing to do with this.
It’s great you’re caring of your siblings/family but it almost appears as an unresolved trauma, which has made you pissy and annoyed at the world, as evidenced by your post history.
You can take people’s advice to do better or you can keep screaming into the garbage can. Up to you
Barbacuda OP t1_itmhqbe wrote
I make significantly more than an hha. I make more than the median income even. What am I supposed to do about being bald? If you say this makes me ghastly what am I supposed to do about something I can't change? Thank you for proving my point. You showed exactly what the dating scene is and what people's opinions are of men they consider beneath them.
You clearly don't give a fuck about my family or the many immigrant families currently in my situation. But publicly and at your job I bet you talk about how kind and caring and progressive you are.
Very progressive until an undesirable attempts to date.
delightedcustomer t1_itmi9ve wrote
Where are you getting my immigration status, my race status, my progressivism percentage, and even my sex and gender from? You’re undesirable because you’re angry, full of excuses, and yourself highlight how you’re a low-hanging fruit in the sexual marketplace (“I’m a bald incel”). Give it a rest and work on self improvement. People have given you enough free tips
Barbacuda OP t1_itmiz9p wrote
Yeah because I was born like this.. I was always angry and hopeless. took a lot of years to get here. I don't need to know your race or gender or anything to assume that you're aligned with the typical neoliberal NYC mentality that just scoffs at incels and brushes the socioeconomic reality of what people like me are experiencing.
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