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secretactorian t1_itmew95 wrote

If you're complaining because you're having a hard time dating in this city, then --

1.) Everyone has a difficult time dating here. There's a literal people buffet, it's an expensive city, and there are a lot of money-driven people here. It's New York. 2.) Dating apps have more men than women on there, so if that's your go-to, might be time to try something else to meet potential partners. 2.) If you smell shit everywhere, might be time to take a look at your own shoes. Your posts describe yourself as an incel. Dunno what to tell you other than women are wisening up to shitty men and raising their standards, so you should probably do some work on yourself. No one owes you a date.

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Barbacuda OP t1_itmfmhm wrote

Yeah except that shitty men still get plenty of women as long as they are of the right socioeconomic status. So you telling me to work on myself is pretty moot. I have and it still will never be enough. And it's not like it's unique to me. The avg guy now isn't having sex either.

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secretactorian t1_itmgy25 wrote

Dude, your responses are so telling. Thanks for making the red flags so obvious.

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Barbacuda OP t1_itmh7d6 wrote

So telling... How is it telling if I don't say any of this to anyone irl? Ofcourse the moment I respond with reality you scoff at it and just say it's red flags. Meanwhile plenty of horrible abusive men are partnered up with women. Explain that

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secretactorian t1_itmualx wrote

Why don't you explain it? Go do some research with legitimate reference material (peer reviewed papers, books by people with doctorates in psychology) and then you tell me.

You can still give off nonverbal vibes that drive people away.

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