The thing is if you weren’t born a female you didn’t have to deal with people treating your biological capabilities as gross or inferior. And it would also be offensive to that crowd if we made a space for females specifically to be celebrated for the things that ultimately connect us in society. As a women who works a hard job, who doesn’t ask for help and hasn’t since I left home as a teen, it isn’t the clothes and make up that dictates my gender. It’s something I didn’t ask for and now in the process I feel excluded from spaces that see females as what they are which is simply females. No choice involved