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Omnizoom t1_jaczs43 wrote

Tried to blackmail her not rape her , you can’t call everything rape , dudes still a complete dick , well an incomplete dick now

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PlauntieM t1_jad772k wrote

Coercing someone into sex is rape regardless of how physically "harmless" the coercion is.

Rape is usually comitted by someone the victim knows and trusted who uses their power over and/or intimate access to the victim. Like this guy did by using the intimate video he had of her to threaten her. Not all rape is done in some dangerous back alley by goons, most rape isn't. Being physically overpowered or violently attacked isn't a requirement for something to be considered "rape".

In this situation he was trying to coerce her into having sex after she already said no (i.e. he didn't accept her "no" and is threatening her into giving into him raping her) by threatening her privacy and reputation, not with physical violence. This is absolutely still rape since she already said no and he's threatening her.

Rape doesn't have to be a physically violent attack to be considered "rape", many victims freeze or fawn or comply and "let it happen" to protect themselves from seemingly worse harm. Not physically fighting back is still not consent.

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AlvinAssassin17 t1_jadcmwt wrote

Uh if you blackmail someone to have sex with you that’s rape.

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Omnizoom t1_jaddkbk wrote

Not by the definition which requires intercourse

It’s not like he was standing over her with his pants down and she cut it off , he threatened her she stood her ground he backed off , she grabbed a weapon and followed him to the shower and attacked him

Dudes an ass but she also had the opportunity to just leave and chose to mutilate him , if it was a man mutilating a woman would you be so kind to them ?

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AlvinAssassin17 t1_jaddqbo wrote

Ugh. I was saying if you blackmail someone and they have sex with you through coercion that’s rape. What he did was attempted rape. Sorry I didn’t clarify.

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Omnizoom t1_jaecpeh wrote

Ya attempted rape at best but he didn’t physical rape her , as someone who was SA it bothers me when people call everything rape

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