RFA stands for a ‘Relief From Abuse’ order, which covers No Stalking as well. She punched me in the face and gave me a black eye while I was driving her somewhere, but it was right in front of a police car and he pulled her out of the car and took her away haha.

I didn’t press charges, because that’s how fucked up relationships work. That was the first time I broke up with her. Since that was a documented incident, I had no problem getting an RFA on her once she started stalking me — usually I guess you have to take them to court, but this was granted instantly. Too bad it doesn’t work.