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NienieDreamer t1_iy93uno wrote

It’s so flippin annoying your brother doesn’t remember Damien. He seems to know what’s going on. Maybe try if he has anything written down or stored away on Damien before he lost his memory?

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mikadomikaela OP t1_iy9xzbw wrote

Good idea. He might have something from those deliveries he made. If i can find out why Damien was like that then maybe I can prevent it from happening again. I don't know how I'd cope if it did.

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NienieDreamer t1_iycgz6x wrote

I wonder; did you actually ever get proof Damien was his boss? Maybe the job did have something to do with him or people like him but idk… Do you think it’s Damien’s doing your brother doesn’t remember him anymore? I don’t see how it could make sense but still… maybe he does remember but it’s just like a cover. If he does not remember then how could he have something to do with your brother not remembering him, thus erasing his memories of what your brother knew about him so that you won’t find out? The way your brother acts just seems very suspicious to me (not in a bad way!!) he’s always uneasy around Damien as if he knew something you didn’t. And he showed up at your house probably because he knew about your vacation and how Damien would cope. I really think your brother knew and wanted to protect you, but maybe his job prevented him from talking about it?

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NienieDreamer t1_iych39t wrote

Also one more thing. I’m not saying you should, but if you leave him make sure to do it VERY safely. And don’t forget about protecting your family and friends either. It seems he’ll not live without you anymore no matter what it takes. If it comes to that then please be safe. Until that time I hope you can get Damien to be a “normal” (or at least not dangerous) husband. Best of luck to you!!

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mikadomikaela OP t1_iycison wrote

Thank you. I think I have come to the conclusion that whatever "business" they were doing was shady. I also noticed that it seemed to come to an end around the time I started dating Damien? We have a box of things that he doesn't remember having and thinks he doesn't need anymore. I'll have a look through that and see what I find. I'll look around my brother's house too. But I do think he has lost his memory. Both of them. I asked the doctor if either of them could be faking it and they said they definitely had some memory loss based on where their injuries were. Apparently Damien was lucky to be alive considering he was holding on to me when the crash happened. So...I think as long as he remains the Damien I married, I'll stay by him

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NienieDreamer t1_iydoveq wrote

Alright so the memory issue of Damien is definitely real then, but now my question is, could any of their memories come back? I won’t recommend wanting to get Damien’s back (and I definitely support you in wanting to stay with him!!) but maybe your brother could get hypnosis or some other kind of therapy? And maybe it wasn’t Damien himself either. Maybe you should find a specialist of the occult and look around if anyone knows what could have happened to Damien or what Damien is. If he is anything find out how to “deal” with him. What are the rules for his being? What triggers him (aside from you being away)? How can you find loopholes around these triggers? What happened with what you described could be excused as him having mental problems but I am worried about the way you described it; it just didn’t seem natural. With that, it seems like a HUGE coincidence that the business stopped when you married Damien. So I’m curious as the reason why.

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mikadomikaela OP t1_iyf2hpx wrote

He had a business on the side and didn't seem to be making revenue from the business my brother was involved in. My brother was the only employee and he was the only one to actually make some money. So maybe it was like my brother delivered something to Damien?- But if that's the case, why would my brother need me to look after his place?

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