You are pansexual. Welcome :) we love the soul

You’re still pansexual when married to a man, this is why people think the groups are underrepresented; they are. Just because you’re a pansexual doesn’t mean you cannot be monogamous, I am too. But like you (I’m guessing) I found my soulmate in a hetero relationship. But, the love I have for his heart and soul outweighs any physical manifestation of it. Pansexuals tend to care about the substance of an entity rather than whatever definition society wants to give it.