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Orange__Moon t1_j8s8vrf wrote

Now I don't know what to really call myself, I generally say I'm straight cause I'm married to a man but I've had a few relationships with other women who were lesbians, and they were the best relationships I've had and remember them only fondly, unlike relationships with men. I don't really think about it like that, I would date an alien with tentacles for hair and blue skin if they were cool or a robot that was completely sentient and self aware if we got along, being made of metal wouldn't bother me. But since I've been with my husband for 20 years and have a kid with him I would just say I was straight. I still wouldn't fall for this crap or like or accept someone cause someone said I should. My husband says I'm the most stubborn, obstinate person he's ever met. That I'd argue the sky is blue. Which I would cause it only appears blue to us, the sky is black. The only time it reason I ever pretend to agree with anyone is to shut them up because they are annoying me. I'm too much of a nihilist to believe shit. Still, I better be careful before an ancient cambion comes after me as the ultimate target. They would lose, but it would still be annoying.

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WaterbearOverlord t1_j908j5p wrote

You are pansexual. Welcome :) we love the soul

You’re still pansexual when married to a man, this is why people think the groups are underrepresented; they are. Just because you’re a pansexual doesn’t mean you cannot be monogamous, I am too. But like you (I’m guessing) I found my soulmate in a hetero relationship. But, the love I have for his heart and soul outweighs any physical manifestation of it. Pansexuals tend to care about the substance of an entity rather than whatever definition society wants to give it.

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NioneAlmie t1_j9h7kl3 wrote

You don't have to say you're straight. You can call yourself something else if it feels right for you.

I personally call myself bi even though I've only dated one woman. The truth is more complicated. I only find women attractive, I only enjoy sex with men (or trans/nonbinary people with penises), and I can love people of any gender.

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