'Sup sister! It's okay, I don't feel 'em either. And I am 30M. I have managed. You will too. Just appreciate, cherish and care for them. As for longing ( the factor which we are actually missing) most PPL can't tell if it's there or not. Try to avoid long distance relationships though. We tend to outgrow them fairly quickly. And avoid dating best friends too. The expectation of a friend and lover is different. While ur friend would forgive u forgetting something little about her, or for not missing her, for ur lover it would be deeply hurtful. Dating ur best friend is a sure way for us to loose both.