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ancientevilvorsoason t1_j7k483v wrote

Try to explain that he scared you but if he tries to tell you more about him, you will try to understand? Gain his trust little by little. Learn more about him. So far, he doesn't want to harm you. Find out what he wants or expects. Why now? Was it because of what your grandma said? Find out why the mere mention caused this. It could be that he genuinely loves you and is stuck between the two worlds. Of course, he could be an abuser and also genuinely have feelings for you, which is not an excuse but would help you to figure out how to handle this further.

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JustAUsedBlanket OP t1_j7kg36k wrote

Hmm, I think it is because of what Grandmam said because it was the day after...he must've been scared. I have come out of the closet and we have discussed some, he wants to get married soon. (Which I feel is too soon, seeing as we've been dating for a few months.) thankfully he's allowing me to keep my phone.

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ancientevilvorsoason t1_j7kij8p wrote

So... you are in love with a fae and... you are the object of affection of a fae? So far, you are relatively safe. Stop reacting and focus on calming yourself and figuring it out. Ask him to tell him more about himself. Try to understand what he wants.

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JustAUsedBlanket OP t1_j7kjapm wrote

Hmm, I guess I might be overreacting so far. I will calm down some. Seeing as he doesn't really want to take away the locks anymore after our agreement. I will discuss this with him later. Thank you for your help!

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