I think because your daughter came out of you that's the only reason it worked like she shares your DNA .. so even if you said the prayer next to your husband I don't think it would have worked ... I also believe in my heart that she isn't cursed but then again idk and wouldn't want to be responsible but I think you should hunt down ole Tom and find out for certain but you definitely have a little soldier who looked out for her Momma and protected her at her weakest time of need ...beautiful