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TheFrogWife t1_j9mlnqf wrote

Sounds like his family was hiding him.

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-businessskeleton- t1_j9mlo4i wrote

So the family hadn't called the police.... Community members did. It seems that the family didn't give a shit about where he was. Weird

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TechnicalVault t1_j9o8n71 wrote

Yep! Despite what most people believe most abduction/missing child cases are not stranger danger, they're a parental abduction. Typically it's a custody battle though sometimes it's them avoiding a child protection investigation. I suspect that child is not now going to be going back to their parents but rather to a CPS foster family.

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AlfalfAhhh t1_j9oblgb wrote

his parents should be arrested for naming him Bread.

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greenearrow t1_j9op1cg wrote

This is one of those things where the odds are infinitesimal, but the result of being unlucky are absolutely catastrophic. It happens to very few people. When it happens, your life is over. You will spend the rest of your life looking for and longing for your child to come home. And of course it isn’t just your life that became awful, and the things you may imagine are happening to your child could be exaggerated or wishful thinking, and how will you know?

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swheels125 t1_j9ovd5c wrote

Just because there are statistically more likely scenarios doesn’t make something a myth. It’s not a myth to win the lottery despite very few actually winning compared to the amount of people that play.

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ItsCalledDayTwa t1_j9owwt0 wrote

I think you're taking it too literally.

Stranger danger was a thing that was drilled into the heads of kids in the 80s and 90s about vans pulling up and nabbing children, but that entire thing was massively out of proportion to reality and probably did more damage to society than it helped. It's closer to mythology than it is an actual danger faced by kids.

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Nibblerrama t1_j9pbjkb wrote

Seems like parents/family hiding him from CPS.

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squigster037 t1_j9piafi wrote

Yep. This is my point.
Strangers aren't your enemy, are not dangerous. There's a strong likelihood that any stranger you asked for help would not harm you, and is, likely to help you.

The immediate recoil and fear of someone you don't know has allowed wedges to be driven into our society, and I feel it's broken our culture up.

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Goddess_Peorth t1_j9skywl wrote

It's weird to use "under 21," because that mixes in violence against young-adult women, where the abduction is either domestic violence or human trafficking (forced sex work)

Seems like different types of crimes/risks than "stranger danger" child abductions.

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