I grew up in Western Jersey and am currently looking into buying a home. Right now we rent in Netcong, we previously lived in Newton. We managed to avoid spending a crazy amount in rent but it definitely more expensive. I’d look at Stanhope, Byram and Netcong area. Stanhope and Byram are in Sussex county but very close to major highways and good food nearby.

Not far from the city, or path trains with route 80 right there. Hope this helps and best of luck