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velveteendreamstreet t1_ixxbv08 wrote

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If you’re just looking for an intellectual conversation and not trying to find a significant other then looks are not important to friendship

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[deleted] OP t1_ixxe6y3 wrote

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velveteendreamstreet t1_ixxferm wrote

That’s extremely superficial to say “I don’t want to go out in public with bad looking people”. Just because someone does not look particularly attractive does not mean they are not well mannered or don’t have respect for others.

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SlyMcFly67 t1_ixzl1a0 wrote

I dont think its too difficult to figure out why you cant make friends.

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ScumbagMacbeth t1_iy0abir wrote

I'm super weird looking and I have tons of friends. Sounds like you need to work on your personality.

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[deleted] OP t1_iy0i3w5 wrote

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ScumbagMacbeth t1_iy0isl9 wrote

I'm fine with it. I'm glad I grew up ugly because it forced me to be funny and smart because I couldn't get by on looks alone.

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[deleted] OP t1_iy0l54c wrote

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ScumbagMacbeth t1_iy0lc2j wrote

Nobody hates you for that. But we are trying to explain to you that you need to have more than good looks to make friends and build meaningful relationships.

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[deleted] OP t1_iy14htl wrote

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ScumbagMacbeth t1_iy4lqp7 wrote

You need to find hobbies or interests you can meet people through. Being attractive and rich is not really a personality or a way to meet people. Join a sport, a club, volunteer work, etc.

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