LiveWire_74 t1_je8huht wrote on March 30, 2023 at 4:27 AM

So to where did you move? Can you tell us specifically how wonderful it is? How long have you been? Do you have kids? The roads are well lit? An ambulance will get there soon should you need it? Is there culture? Good food? These are just questions. I’m genuinely curious.

shower_ghost t1_je8myiv wrote on March 30, 2023 at 5:22 AM

I’m 99% sure this guy is either a troll or just a bad liar. Looking through his post history, he posted a “leaving NJ was the best decision” post 209 days ago where one comment he made stated “we had to live in Montclair so my in-laws could help with the baby.” 170 days ago he posts on relationships that he hasn’t met his wife’s parents. I know in-laws aren’t always parents but that seems suspicious. Timelines are confusing too - 2 years ago he posts that he’s 30M but last year he posts elsewhere that he’s 35M. I’m not an expert but I don’t think you can age 5 years in 2 years timespan. All this internet sleuthing to say I think he’s a liar trying to rile people up and he can’t keep his story straight.

MainStreetinMay t1_je91cg8 wrote on March 30, 2023 at 8:38 AM

Thanks for the comment history reminder. It seems that he should post this in the St Louis subreddit since he’s having a hard time buying a house there as well.

TheBravadoBoy t1_je9n54z wrote on March 30, 2023 at 12:51 PM

Real estate posters making shit up? Never seen that before!

LostSharpieCap t1_je8lc6f wrote on March 30, 2023 at 5:04 AM

You are spot-on to ask about the ambulance. Access to medical care outside Jersey is largely crap. I found some affordable homes out of state, but none were within a 90 minute drive of a developmental pediatrician accepting new patients or with a short waiting list that accept our insurance. I’d love to leave but my kid’s doctors are here.

LiveWire_74 t1_jeajikk wrote on March 30, 2023 at 4:42 PM

Your child’s care is the most important thing, as you know. Secondly, the educational system here, while not perfect, is really good I’m told. Unfortunately for me, my kids live in upstate NY.