_jtron t1_j6jxhxm wrote on January 30, 2023 at 9:24 PM

I'm from New Haven but have lived in Chicago for a long time. Cost of living seems surprisingly similar. You can meet friends and partners both places. What differences are you most concerned with?

Proof_Buy7675 OP t1_j6k7u6l wrote on January 30, 2023 at 10:29 PM

I think being able to find a community outside of Yale is important and also a general diversity and Asian American community

curbthemeplays t1_j6l7i7r wrote on January 31, 2023 at 2:44 AM

Both areas are pretty diverse and great people to meet. You’re also a <2 hour train ride to NYC from NHV.

I’d honestly be less concerned about the social aspect and more career. If either is better for career, go there.

I’d rather live in NHV because the winters are easier, there’s more outdoors options nearby, and I prefer New England. But otherwise, I don’t have any other strong reasons. They both can be great.

user1100100 t1_j6npy19 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 5:04 PM

I've lived in New Haven since the '80s and I would bet the Yale Asian community is quite diverse and vibrant in and of itself. Large population of foreign born as well as US citizens.

friendofwillam t1_j6k5oqr wrote on January 30, 2023 at 10:15 PM

Agreed. If you make enough of an effort, you can find great friend and romantic partner prospects anywhere. There’s great art, music, food, etc. in New Haven. NYC is also a quick train ride away. I’d definitely recommend moving to CT, but I also don’t know Chicago at all.