Submitted by Hdale803 t3_10dyry2 in newhampshire

Context: ~550,000-700,000 budget, couple with infant

Where would you move? Grew up in Southern Maine and are coming from Providence RI - love both spots and being outdoors, having go-to restaurants and being close to groceries, shops etc.

-Dover? Seems cheaper but schools seem suspect. Exeter? Durham? …Hampton?

Needs to be close-ish to Portsmouth for work purposes

We appreciate any insight!

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Takenotecitizen t1_j4o02zb wrote

I can't think of many bad spots in seacoast New Hampshire except Rochester. Stratham is nice.

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FTheOldWest t1_j4o0hpm wrote

I sent you a dm!

It personally like Lee and madbury area

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FTheOldWest t1_j4o1d8q wrote

Wanted to add, alot will depend on what you want in particular with a home/land. Portsmouth in that budget isn't nonexistant, but the home and land will be significantly less than compared to like, northwood

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Redditusername251 t1_j4o3hes wrote

I’m not the above commenter, but am familiar with the Rochester area. There are a lot of unsavory areas in Rochester where buildings are rundown. I’m sure, like most places, they also have their fair share of drug/crime issues. It’s not the worst place in the state, and a lot of people see it as up and coming, but I personally wouldn’t want to live there. Schools are probably on par, if not worse, than Dover, but I can’t say I’m an expert on that.

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razed_intheghetto t1_j4oaf1q wrote

Exeter for sure. Close to Portsmouth and cool little downtown of its own.

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thepopulargirl t1_j4obpvs wrote

Exeter, Stratham, Hampton are very good. Hampton has the lowest property taxes between all of them. The schools are high rated, and the towns are safe.

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Takenotecitizen t1_j4oewvk wrote

Issue? Uh....yeah...there's more than one 'issue', but the poverty you can go and see for yourself most days. One time the guy who worked at the Walgreen's there said to me, 'Buddy, at night this place is like the Star Wars bar."

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HAMMERMAIN73 t1_j4opco9 wrote

I grew up in Rye and went to PHS. Nice place if you can afford it. Your kid will love the ocean

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1976dave t1_j4pubny wrote

Hey OP. I lived in Epping for 8 years. I loved it. I lived in town, and it's a very townie kind of town; people got to recognize us out walking every day and say hi, chat a bit, we made some friends, etc but it took a while. It's a small place but it's got everything you need and it's pretty convenient. The one downside is the schools are pretty lacking. For your budget you could do a whole lot better in Durham, Madbury, Exeter, etc.

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ihaveatrophywife t1_j4q9kes wrote

There’s a housing shortage for sure so it’s good to look in a few towns. Lee and Madbury are great. Rollinsford is worth a look, it’s definitely underrated. Dover is a wonderful city, the issue is years of mismanagement. The teachers are some of the lowest paid in the state despite fairly high taxes. There’s a ton of development happening, which gets tax breaks. Hopefully the City sees its worth and sticks up for the residents more. Epping has a lot there and is very convenient. Greenland, Stratham are sort of like Epping. I’d stay away from towns closer to the Coast just due to prices and traffic.

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Hextall2727 t1_j4qcf8i wrote

I live in Lee purposefully for the school (we are in a co-op with Madbury and Durham). Housing is very competitive, although the top of your budget might be less competitive (if any houses in that range come on the market). Houses in my neighborhood are going for just over $500k, I had mine appraised 3 years ago during my divorce for $350k (and I bought it for $265k in 2013). It's a relatively easy jaunt to go to portsmouth, although you'll curse loudly during the commute home over the rt 4 bridge in Newington.

I cannot say enough good things about the Oyster River school district. I've known people that worked in both the Exeter and Portsmouth districts, and while those are pretty good, there are some institutional problems that make me doubly happy about Oyster River.

I used to live in Newmarket, and I think the school there is pretty good, it was lacking a bit for what we needed. so we decided to move about 9 years ago. I still live a 7 minute drive to downtown newmarket and can get my vanilla latte at crackskulls with a smile. Oddly enough, when I moved back to NH in the mid 2000's... there was a house for sale in Lee that we would have bought (this was pre-child) but we balked at the taxes. Now I'm glad to be here and can stomach paying a premium tax rate... wish I really thought that through then. would have saved a lot of headache.

Edit to add: Barrington has a tuition agreement with Oyster River where students can tuition into the high school. I think though it is competitive to get a spot, but I'm not 100% sure.

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thepopulargirl t1_j4qq7rk wrote

I live in Hampton and also lived on Hampton beach. Tourists don’t mingle in town they go directly to the beach, the town is always quiet even on the busiest days on the beach. We locals know back roads that are never busy with almost no traffic. If you stay out of downtown Hampton beach you are going to be alright. We usually stay close to north beach (the wall) away from the crowds of the restaurants and bars. I live in town right now, but really close to the beach, 2min drive, and you never can tell that the ocean is so close, my backyard is wooded and I have 18 turkeys living there. Even the weather is different.

I don’t know if you are interested, but the schools are amazing.

Compared to the towns around us there are very few houses for sale, even before Covid. I’ve never seen more than 10 houses for sale at once ( I don’t think I’ve seen 10 actually). We also pay less property taxes thanks to the beach.

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677536543 t1_j4qsmkq wrote

Exeter/Stratham/Newfields/Newmarket...any one of those towns will get you space but you'll be fairly close to the highway for access to Portsmouth and the beach. Personally I would look closely at Newmarket. Good downtown restaurants and young-ish vibe.

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heyhelloyuyu t1_j4qtsvq wrote

Also it’s been a few years but If I remember correctly there’s special parking lots for residents at Hampton beach. I never lived there but the ex’s friends did and they would park somewhere right next to the beach for free (was crowded but not as bad as trying to get regular parking at the beach during summer) so that’s a nice lil perk.

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AnythingToAvoidWork t1_j4sip1y wrote

It's probably a bad time to buy a home right now. Housing prices are really high and are just starting to fall.

I loved Dover when I lived there. Moved out about 4-5 years ago.

Look at the school rankings and pick any town around the good ones. Everywhere in NH is nice.

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baroquesun t1_j4twxot wrote

Exeter! (Or Stratham, Kensington, East Kingston, South Hampton). Exeter school district is good and the town is super cute. 20 minutes to Portsmouth and theres a train stop right in town to get down to Boston in just over an hour. Not a ton on the market, though. I'm from Kingston which is right nearby and while there are some nice homes and it is nicer than some abutting towns, it might only be something to consider if you want to maximize square footage and acreage. It's kind of rural in the sense that there isn't much of a downtown and the school is very okay.

Durham is nice but UNH kind of rules the town. Newmarket is coming up but very small school. Rye is gorgeous if you can afford it. Greenland is also a great option, right outside of Portsmouth.

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sheila9165milo t1_j4vhc9x wrote

That's total bullshit. They just tore down the old high school a few years ago and built a brand new one and it's Voc school, so Dover gets taxpayer dollars from Barrington, too. Also, Durham sends their kids there for voc trades, Nottingham and Northwood kids got there, too, because Coe-Brown is so bad.

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Wide_Television_7074 t1_j4xna0i wrote

OP, it’s tough to leave Providence, we are similar to you. We were in PVD but left last year. 2 young kids under 2, in North Conway NH now and love it.

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comefromawayfan2022 t1_j4y3xgw wrote

As someone who went to Dover high but lived in a neighboring community, the best part about going to Dover high was being right at the school and having the career technical education classes right on site. So I didn't have to spend a large chunk of my day on the bus traveling from my "home" school to Dover high to take classes and taking time away from the other general ed classes for travel time. I had "area" kids in my class from as far away as Milton and marshwood high school in Maine and those kids spent quite a chunk of time on the busses traveling to my school for classes

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comefromawayfan2022 t1_j4y4bro wrote

Coe brown has their own voc programs. I know for a fact they have agriculture programs and have for years but that their agriculture programs aren't as strong as the one at dover. I went to Dover high and the animal science teacher who heads up the dover high program graduated from coe brown

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lostinnhwoods t1_j4y7bae wrote

With that kind of budget you can afford to live in Hampton, Rye, Portsmouth, North Hampton, anywhere along the sea coast, basically.

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GreatGrandaddyPurp t1_j53je26 wrote

If I worked in Portsmouth and had that much cash I'd live in Portsmouth. Traffic sucks. The less time you spend in it per day that happier you'll be.

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youarelookingatthis t1_j56wqy2 wrote

Hampton Beach is great. It can get really busy during the summer and there have been some issues with some people in recent years, but I've been going up there for over 10 years and I've never encountered a single issue.

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