>this is going to be really long but i don't think i can condense or shorten my thoughts

>Not only as a father, but as the parent of 2 children

I think you could have condensed your thoughts at least a little there i.e. as the father of 2 children

I haven't finished the third paragraph yet, but no coop is not a terrible father. His kids were likely to die slowly and painfully on Earth. Also in the first 20 mins we see him actively working to maximize his children's happiness and education