in the end, yeah. but from the time he left until the time she realized the gravity well in her bedroom was her father she would have resented the hell out of him. I forget how old she was but that’s like 20 solid years she tormented herself why she wasn’t good enough to have dad stick around, coming from someone who hasn’t spoken to their father in 20 years. it would take a lot to overcome that and as you said she did but she lived a lot of life before then