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Gunner1Cav t1_j28u6wa wrote

You have to know the difference between a woman who wants to be friends, and a woman who knows you’re thirsty and keeps you on the hook.

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Longjumping_Refuse61 t1_j28y87g wrote

Right! It's not the friend zone, it's the "ew, no. but hang out over here, we may find a use for you later" zone.

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Noirceuil_182 t1_j29ukd4 wrote

This is entirely too passive. It's more like, "welp, simps are gonna simp..." NO ONE can put anyone else in any "zone."

Only you (generic "you") can control how salty you get if someone you find attractive doesn't want to bang you. I mean, are there shitty people who'd use you out there? Sure! But in this particular instance, you have more of a you problem that will eventually lead you to get dunked on online and get arrested in Romania.

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chinesenameTimBudong t1_j2aii1v wrote

I dealt poker. Rich old guys who complained no hot girl will touch them for free. Then go on to offer the semi hot waitress a Hawaiian vacation as she rolls her eyes.

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SadFox-29 t1_j299caf wrote

Isn't friend zone the state of liking someone you've been friends with for a long time so it's awkward to tell them how you feel?

It's sad this meaning was lost to so many people using it just as a euphemism to being rejected

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Kingofauui t1_j2bwgrh wrote

It’s quiet rejection. The guy can’t stay away cause he thinks there’s a chance and the woman likes the attention but not enough to sleep with him. In this scenario the woman is the worse person for letting this happen

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ChiggaOG t1_j2aatga wrote

And a woman who wants to be in a relationship.

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strawbrrysundae t1_j2cugrx wrote

Or a woman who rejects you because she isn’t interested and doesn’t have to be friends with you if she isn’t interested.

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