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team-tree-syndicate t1_iyb2q32 wrote

If you wish suffering upon an ex lover, I don't think you loved them to begin with anyways.

I couldn't care less if my first ex doesn't do well, but my previous ex I still care for. We may not be dating anymore but we both still care for each other on a basic level and wouldn't wish for suffering. That's love imo, even if things don't work out you still hope they do well in life.

I'd say the same thing if me and my current partner split ways, unless something terrible happened of course.

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Duncan9292 t1_iyclr3x wrote

Depends on the splitting up I don't wish ill will on any of mine but you can imagine if your ex stole from you or cheated . I'm just annoyed at myself for all the time I wasted. Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.

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team-tree-syndicate t1_iyegjzu wrote

I mean yeah makes sense, if an ex does something bad enough to cause you not to love them anymore, that's understandable

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youre_not_ironic t1_iybhnhf wrote

That is the weirdest combination I’ve ever seen: of far-leftist pseudo-intellectual judgement and someone admitting they’re a stalker.

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team-tree-syndicate t1_iybuts6 wrote

What?... I barely talk to them anymore, just wish them well in life. Is this what people call stalking nowadays? Sheesh...

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Bobblehead356 t1_iyd6ujd wrote

Some people are either too sheltered or too young to comprehend that men and women can have relationships and connections beyond being related or actively dating.

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