Submitted by caminandoennubes t3_11ymv1x in massachusetts
The /r/truerandomthoughts sub really unsettled me. I think most people reading this know what I'm talking about. I'm still processing seeing someone putting these long, detailed essays about their past relationships, next to "Grammarly can by annoying," next to "we should purge certain celebs from society," next to something about pets.
And I'm kind of uncomfortable that all of that just got deleted. It feels like there's someone really unstable and earnest out there, just seething.
How do you respond to that? Is it just one more drop in the bucket, tons of crazies out there, this is just one who happened to keep their diary public? (Damn, how many of them are there?!) Or was this the precursor to something happening in the real world, and we could do more to be forewarned and forearmed?
This whole thing was a perspective shift for me about people, and my & others' relationship with Reddit. I'm still evaluating. Would love to hear thoughts.
EDIT: This is about 7 hours after I initially posted at midday. I'm really grateful for all the thoughts that have been offered. Like I said, the things I read & the way they were presented shook me up. (Maybe it wasn't the things themselves, it was the way I took them...but let's not gaze at our navels too hard.) But this discussion has given me some comfort, catharsis, and closure. Helped turn the page personally, even if this probably isn't the last anyone will say on it.
Three things I think are helpful touchpoints:
- If you ever feel you need it, the federal suicide & crisis hotline is 988. You are worth keeping around.
- If you would like a reset on racism, here's an essay from Karen Russell, the late great Bill Russell's daughter. It's about growing up and facing racism, it was published in 1987, and it still feels fresh to me. (The phrase "making America great again" appears in it, it was a slogan then too.) https://www.nytimes.com/1987/06/14/magazine/growing-up-with-privilege-and-prejudice.html (Despite the NYT link I didn't encounter a paywall. Too old?)
- Boston Public Library has some mental health resources including "therapy cards" and free access to a editation app subscription ( https://www.bpl.org/mentalhealth/ ), and Worcester Public Library has a resource list website ( https://www.mywpl.org/health-medicine )
Icy-Neck-2422 t1_jd8d6tt wrote
I'd like to think they are no more dangerous than Comic Book Guy from the Simpsons.